So a lot has happened since my the time when my last post went down and now. I'm hoping that I'll be able to randomly come back to good stories when I have some free time, but as of right now I am in the midst of my fourth year finals and have 0 time. Which explains why I spent the last hour on funny auto corrects..... man that shit gets me every time.
Anyways if you care to be updated with the tragedies in my romantic life and follow my other blog you'll know that I have recently gone through a break up and am now happily single. My goal is no new kills till the new year. 2011 was a bit of a big year... Dealt with heartbreak the wrong way. So far I've been sex-less for 3 weeks. That probably doesn't sound like a lot, but I'm a serial dater, so I really haven't spent to much time without somebody to love since I started dating. I'm happy that I'm not just sleeping around to fulfill my intimacy needs (aka my Jan-Jun of 2011) but I'm also getting a little ancy in my pant-cys. Anyways here are my stories.
Friday
My best friend at school (Vanessa, aka: Ness) was supposed to go to the town her sister lives in, about an hour West of here, for her sister's birthday. I don't really know Ness' sister at all, so I was never intending to go, but when Ness found out that her sister's verbally abusive, d-bag of an ex was going to be there as well as Ness' own ex, she asked if I would tag along for mental support. I, oh-so-reluctantly obliged, I mean partying out of town... gawd Ness. Not my scene.
Hah, lies. Obviously I was stoked. Any excuse to drink, meet people and avoid hitting the books. So after a day of being semi-productive we hit the road. The party started off with this cute little food and drink festival. Basically we got tickets (a dollar each) and circulated this market and got to try little samplers of any of the food we liked. Most of it was bite-sized, but also only cost one ticket! So we got to try some swanky (3 ticket) wine, some amaaazing butter chicken and listen to a chillin jazz band. It was a really nice way to start off the evening. I kept saying to Ness that if our pre-party was this classy there was only direction for the night to go from there.... slopppyyy.
When we got back to the apartment we all started drinking and set up a drinking game, which I will share with you at the end, because it is so very fun and gets you so very drunk. Ness and her sister got drunk the fastest by far but the boys and I kept drinking longest forsure. The next day Ness recalled taking her sister's 'ex' outside to talk to him about treating her sister right. Some of her threats included:
"I will find you"
"I will cut you"
"I will burn down your house"
Hahahahahaha. Love the girl. She's a badass, and cute as a button. I vaguely remember giving Steve a glare and saying, you better treat both those girls right. GIRL POWER!!
So the other ex in the room was Ness' ex-boyfriend, Nick. Nick and I got along really well when they dated. He's quirky and sarcastic, so we shared a lot of the same humor. Since my brutal break up (discussed in detail in L&L) with my ex. Luke in January, I have/had been searching for someone who understood where I was coming from. When I heard about the break up between Ness and Nick, my heart went out to him because I understood. After the split he did somethings he never should have that really put him in Ness' black books. Rightfully so on her part, but I understand the place his actions came from. So when we heard he would be at the party we were both a little worried shit might go down. All was well though and they were cool with each other, although Nick did get wastttted and end up on the bathroom floor. But lets rewind to pre-shitfaced.
At one point I saw the boys head outside and I figured that they were heading for a smoke, so I went out in hopes of bumming, I was quite successful. While we were out there (I don't totally recall details) I started talking to Nick about what had happened with him and Ness. We had a longlong chat about how fucked up heartbreak is and how much it hurts and why doesn't it stop and I think by the end he was finding some sort of solace in knowing he wasn't alone. I know that even though it's a bit late and I've already had to find comfort in other places (for lack of options: see above sleeping around reference), but even now, having someone who actually felt what I felt and knew how black a hole life can be after love.. well it made me feel justified for all my crap over the last 11 months.
The next highlight of my night was Nick's little brother, Ryan. Ironically enough, Nick and Ness used to talk about setting the two of us up but that never actually followed through. I guess I noticed him checkin me out and I was bored (everyone started winding down and thinking about bed) so I asked him to go for a walk. We stayed out for at least 3 hours talking. Didn't go back in before 5am. I have realized that it was very much me monologuing, haha, but he was a great listener, and everything he did say was clever and poignant (esp. considering he's a year younger!). I kept telling him he was the most mature boy I'd met in ages, which is the dead truth, men are mentally so much younger than women. Of course, Ryan is the proven exception. So after a while we found ourselves sitting very close together on the fire escape stairs to Ness' sister's apartment. I have realized that I am a first-mover. I am almost always the one who goes in for the kill. So, true to form, I pulled his head towards mine and had my first make out as a truly single bitty. It wasn't that great to be honest, never did I notice his age more than when we kissed. But he was so nice. We ended up havin a hot and heavy make out sesh inside, but this had to be very quiet and subtle considering his brother was passed out cold on the couch beside us (we took the floor) and Ness and her sister and Steve were in the bedrooms. When all was said and done, I got to sleep in someone's arms again, which lemme tell ya, felt real good. Him and Nick had to leave early in the morn for work so we just smiled knowingly at each other and said goodbye. More on this to come...
So that was the better part of my weekend
for now, peacceee...
today's title brought to you by: The Motto - Drake ft. Lil Wayne
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